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Submitted by anonymous
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i am severly in love wih my fiance but i feel like im competing with
his family. (mostly with his mother.) we just had a baby girl. she is
the world to us but once in a great while we try to go on dates for
daddy and mommy time. well his mother has "forgotten" every time we
have been on our date and called him. but she doesnt JUST call him. she
calls a few times, leaves a voicemail, sends a text, and then calls a
few more times until he picks up. (he cant cut his phone off for work
purposes.) every voicemail and text message just says "call me". so
he finally calls and of course she never has anything important to say.
at one point she was calling him at least six to eight times a day. and
his mother isnt the only one who constantly calls him until he picks
up. its four others as well. we are supposed to get married this month
but im thinking of postponing it because i dont know if i can deal with
his family anymore.
Readers have left 4 comments. 1. swesson Wow, that is annoying. Does this happen to him only when he is with you? ...or does this happen all the time? I guess what I am asking is if this is due to their disliking of you or if it's just how his family functions.
Maybe a good place to start is to talk to him and ask some questions. 2. Me OMG SOMEONE KNOWS HOW I FEEL. 3. Guest User that sucks. you know, he can always block his mom's number for the day or have another phone for business use only...
he has to be decisive and tell them off about bothering you when you're on a date. "if you're not dying... don't call," is always a good line. 4. Guest User that sucks. you know, he can always block his mom's number for the day or have another phone for business use only...
he has to be decisive and tell them off about bothering you when you're on a date. "if you're not dying... don't call," is always a good line. or go on an official cruise vacation where your husband can turn off his cellphone till you get back. |
